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Updated May 16, 2002
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Coping Strategies
Financial Tips
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Coping
Strategies:
- Give yourself a break! This didn't happen because of anything
you did or didn't do.
- Deal with your feelings. As
with any loss, you may experience the stages of grief, including
shock and disbelief, fear and anxiety, anger and blame, and then
acceptance and exploration of new possibilities. Also, you might
feel betrayal, confusion, and self-pity. This is all normal.
- Express your feelings with trusted
friends, in a journal, in a support group. Also consider private
counseling. Check the phone book for community services that
might be low cost or free.
- Think positively, use motivational
books and tapes, and associate with positive, supportive people.
Relieve stress with exercise, meditation, deep breathing and
healthy living.
- Plan a daily routine of job
hunting. Get involved in volunteer activities you haven't had
time for.
- Consider this an opportunity
to reassess and revitalize your life.
- Create a budget, then cut expenses
and lower your expectations. Look at needs rather than wants.
- Ask your supervisor or supervising
co-workers (i.e. captains or instructors you flew with) for letters
of recommendation or to serve as references. Maintain a connection
and let them know how your job search is progressing or who they
might be hearing from.
- NETWORK, NETWORK, NETWORK!!!
Financial
Tips (excerpted from
USA Today, October 5, 2001)
- Take advantage of any outplacement
services that might be offered by your employer. They may not
help you get a job, but they will help you polish your resume
and interviewing techniques.
- File for unemployment insurance
right away, so that benefits won't be delayed. Bring documentation,
including pay stubs or other evidence of how much you earned,
and a dismissal notice or furlough letter.
- Change your spouse's tax withholding.
Reduce the amount of tax withheld, since your tax liability will
probably be less and because you can use the cash right now.
- Consider reducing your spouse's
401(k) contribution temporarily to free up more cash.
- Make sure you have health insurance.
Sign up under your spouse's, or sign up for COBRA to extend your
company's health insurance benefits for up to 18 months (you
pay premiums).
- Prioritize your bills. Pay your
mortgage and utilities first.
- Manage debt. Pay minimum balances
on credit cards temporarily, or negotiate a payment plan with
them. They might reduce the amount of minimum payments or waive
interest until you find work. A credit counselor might help -
contact National Foundation for Credit Counseling at 800-388-2227
or www.nfcc.org.
- Review insurance policies. Contact
the insurer if you're having trouble paying premiums. Some might
offer a 30-day grace period. Avoid canceling life insurance,
as it is costly and troublesome to obtain again.
- Look for sources of short-term
cash. You can borrow from your own 401(k) if you're still working.
Consider borrowing from spouse's 401(k).
- Avoid taking money out of 401(k)
or IRA (cashing in). Tax and penalties are high. Sell stocks
judiciously if it will be at a loss - perhaps only half in a
given fund.
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